Q. I have so many dreams and want to do something in life? I face so many problems, how to make my dream fulfilled?
A . First make it clear that what you want to do. This is really sure that if that is possible then nothing can stop you from doing. Yes it may take your time, hard work and nice preparation but you can do. I just want to say you that if you want to fulfill your dream then you prepare yourself. And it will be good that make a small list that what,what things you need for doing. And then start working on each one step by step. Yes, nothing is easy and nothing is difficult. You need to do hard work with heart and love. Keep the patience and belief in yourself. Your preparation plays a big role. If you do not prepare yourself then it will become difficult. Do not think that you are alone and nobody knows you how you will do. I believe if you are ready to prepare yourself and ready to do hard work then nobody can stop you. Same time your work is just to do and prepare yourself, do your best and leave your result … do not think what comes as result. If you get be happy and if you do not get be happy and that is Yoga. But make sure to find out what was your mistake so you don't get and don't repeat mistakes again and again. Whole life is Yoga. Yoga means the way of living the life. But be confident for your doing and you will see that slowly, slowly you are closer to your dream and one day you can get what you want.
Q. Some time why I feel life is meaningless?
A. Life is not meaningless but most of the time what we do is meaningless. You are close to your heart that's why this question comes. There are people they get this question only few seconds before they die. There are also people they die but never this question comes. Mostly we all are struggling from child for education, jobs, money, name and fame and other things and this struggle never stops. A beggar struggle for small things and big businessman struggle for big things but both are struggling and both remain unhappy but you can feel your life when you are with yourself.
Q . Sometime why I feel that I am alone?
A . If you understand nicely then you will find not only sometime but the whole life we live alone and really we all are alone. Do not misunderstand it. Mostly people live like dream and they never understand themselves and they just live with others. They feel their money, car, work, friends, and relatives and only these things are life. They never even ask themselves about themselves. Of course we have friends, relatives and all are to help each other in daily life to have balance life. But same time we must look at ourselves. Once I die nobody can go with me and only I have to go. Yes, friends and relatives can cry a little. Your all money and work will be here. Your relatives can use your money. The best way is to live this life with all people but same time, do not miss the self. People do everything but they miss themselves. Do not miss yourself.
Q. why there are so much divorce cases? Within few years of marriage people give divorce?
A. Really this is because no one loves anyone and everyone needs love. You all love me because I love you. You feel happy with me and that's why you all are here, and once I do something wrong or mistake which may you do not like, then you all will hate me. And I know this truth that no one loves anyone. Really we all are selfish. Husband want wife should do what he wants and wife want that husband should do what she wants. The whole crash is just because of self ego and selfish nature. But in deep what do you need, yes you need only love and love means nothing but surrender. And no one wants to surrender and whole relation become like adjustment. Relation is not adjustment. Once you understand relation, you will understand whole Yoga, life, and you will feel more happy and peace. But we all are far from ourselves and we all remain unhappy.
Q . Some time I feel lots of fear of death and live unhappy?
A . There is no anyone who does not have fear of death. This is the biggest truth that we all have to die. May you are rich or poor may you are famous or simple but everyone have to die. Nobody can escape from death. I, you and all people will have to die and it can come anytime. Death is always behind with us. But people ignore it. Most of the people have fear and they hide their fear inside. Life is not just for death but it is so meaningful for self and also for others. But we all are responsible for self. That's why I say where is the time to hate and fight with each other. One day we all have to die. Why not we all can live with happiness and peace? Even you cannot find few happy families. Everyone try to give problems to each other for small, small things. Just live the life and try to understand yourself and make your life meaningful for your self and also for others. We all have to face death and nobody can stop it and this is the truth.
Q . I want to change myself but do not know how?
A . If you want to change yourself then I am sure you know how. Practice Yoga in daily life and be friendly with family and relatives. Try to understand yourself and you will see changing in yourself.
Q. You always say love parents but how to love them? We have so much work and life is so difficult.
A. So good question. I do not know why you do not understand that how to love. If you want to fight then may you need to learn but for loving someone does not need anything to learn and nobody can teach you. You say you have so much work but why you forget yourself that one day you will also become parents and same thing your child will do with you. That's why I tell you that mostly we all are selfish. Your parents do not need your money but they need your love. When you were small then they used to love you so much. But now, you get girl friend, boy friend and you try to enjoy with keeping parents another side and really this is very bad. In Indian and other countries, this is big problem. No one cares about old people. And mostly they are useful to take care of small child at home so that young son can enjoy. No, this is not love or respect for parents. They are not just to take care of your child like servant. You must need to remember who they are. And also remember that you will also become old one day and you will face same problems. You may have more money in old ages but from where you will get love. So please do not forget your parents and love them, take care of them.
Q . Sometime I do not know what to do?
A . Believe in yourself. Take the help of your parents and friends and their guidance and love yourself. Problems come and it comes to make you stronger. Be confident. Practice everyday asana, prayanama, and other Yoga techniques.
Q . I have done so many mistakes in my life. I want to change myself but when I remember my past mistakes then feel guilty myself and become unhappy.
A . Mostly we tell others are wrong but if we look at ourselves then we can find that how wrong we are. You cannot find who has not done mistake. Yes, everyone does mistake in life. But we must learn from mistake and never repeat it again. No need to think so much about past mistake and same time it is good not to repeat again. Do not feel guilty of that but live now and see that tomorrow is waiting for you. Whatever comes just live do not think about past. But at the same time, learn from the past. So many wars happened in the past and all people know the result that it can destroy but no any people learn and today you can see that whole world is ready to fight each other. Whole world has seen the war and fight just for their own ego and still there are people trying to fight. So past is good to learn and make the future better but not to go in wrong direction.
Q . How to keep myself always calm, relax, healthy and happy?
A . Live the natural life and keep practicing Yoga it will give you good health and peace of mind. Happiness is the state of mind and it depends on that how you react. When you practice Yoga then your mind will be more calm and relax and you will be having good control on your own mind. Try to understand yourself and also understand this life. In life there are always some problems and it will be but we can live happy as much as we want. Mostly we depend on each other and our happiness also depends on each other. Same time you can not change the whole world but you can change yourself. I know there will be fight and people will be dying in this world just for fight and war. But I pray that all people of the world should understand the real problems and understand the life and they can stop the fighting and hope there should be no fight or war and nobody should die in these fights and wars.
Q. I am healthy; I try to make myself more beautiful. I have everything but why not I am happy?
A. Happiness and peace do not depend on this that how healthy, wealthy or beautiful you are. Happiness and peace is the state of calm and relax mind. And if your body is healthy, it doesn't mean that your mind is also healthy. You can see the people who are very healthy and physically strong, beautiful. But they smoke; they drink and also hurt so many people. Do not misunderstand beautiful, if you are really beautiful then you will be always feeling happiness and peace. People misunderstand beautiful and people try to look good by cloth and makeup. Your cloths or makeup can not make you feel happiness and peace. Ask yourself that are you happy? Do not believe on me but ask yourself. You can also see some cover page of magazine where you will find girls who having very little cloth with smiling faces. But look at the picture for few seconds deeply and you will see that how much pain is in her heart and you can see the tears in her eyes. But the real beauty, love, happiness and peace can not come by cloth, money or makeup; it will come when you understand yourself. You may smile; you may tell thousand times that you are happy but I will tell you ask yourself that are you happy. |